Category Archives: 6 Steps to Falling in Self-Love

Step 6: Let the Party Begin

Set the date, find your venue, send out invitations, and let the party of self-love begin.

Step 5: Plan to Marry Yourself!

Now that you are your own little solar system and the brightest little star at the centre of your own cosmos, it is time to invite family and friends who love you as much as you love yourself, and to help you celebrate your rocking divinity. Picture your perfect ceremony in your head, see the smiling faces of your friends as they witness your joy, play with wedding vows until you have the perfect expression of your perfect self.

Step 4: Be Your Own Best Friend

Tell yourself jokes. Spoil yourself rotten. Keep yourself entertained by doing what YOU want to do. Write down a promise to self that you will “never put baby in the corner.” Flick “friends” that dare to support habits of self-loathing. Become a magnet to new friends that are a reflection of your perfection.

Step 3: See Yourself as Goddess

Here are just some ways you can see yourself as “Goddess”:

  • Begin to notice your perfections when you look in the mirror.
  • Receive compliments as graciously and copiously as you give them.
  • Say “yes, yes, YES” a lot, with revellious and delightful energy.
  • Practice shameless acts of joy and master joyous acts of shame.
  • Affirm yourself daily with delicious words including “magical, mystical, sparkling, juicy, ethereal, beauty, intuitive, divine.”

When you see yourself as Goddess, this is the gorgeous energy you radiate and hence, you begin to attract similarly gorgeous people into your life.

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Step 2: Throw Out Self-Loathing

Looking in the mirror and criticising your imperfections? Laughing off compliments and dismissing nods to your brilliance? Flying under the radar so your super-stardom goes unnoticed? These are classic signs that you have a degree of self-loathing. Self-loathing only serves to block you from finding happiness within. When you radiate unhappiness, you attract unhappy people. Unhappy people are generally commitment-phobes. So get over yourself girl, and repeat after me: “Self-loathing is for suckers.”

Step 1: Set Your Intention

Lewis Carroll said, “If you don’t know where you’re going, any road will get you there.” It’s the perfect advice for anyone seeking an outcome, but without a map or vision for how to achieve it.

Work out what you want to achieve by marrying yourself. For example, “a lifelong commitment from a partner in a relationship that exudes happiness at every turn.” Before you can expect this commitment from someone else, you must first promise that you will do everything in your power to give this to yourself, every day.